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paupav Master Cheater
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Posted: Tue Feb 03, 2015 8:05 pm Post subject: social anxiety |
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| I didnt had anything to do in School ( I had practical work and I've finished too early and I was alone 2 hours) And I've seen my friend with whom I sometimes hang out at the gym and with whom I talk at the bus stop. He was talking to 3 friends and I've said " heey [ his name]" and came in the circle. He was standing at the oposite side of thr "circle" but he was facing about 20° to the right (so he wasnt looking directly at me). And he just continued looking straight in front of him. One of his friends looked at me and then turned back. There was silence for about 1 minute (or it seemed to me like a long time). After what I've just gone away. I was feeling really weird. So, what do you think, do I have social anxiety.[/b]
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Nirojan How do I cheat?
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Posted: Tue Feb 03, 2015 10:07 pm Post subject: |
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you are fucking autistic
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potaters Grandmaster Cheater
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Posted: Tue Feb 03, 2015 11:35 pm Post subject: |
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| u wot m8, repeat wot
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paupav Master Cheater
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| ControlAltDelete wrote: | | spaghetti |
Yes, he is Italian, how did you know?
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TwoSpooky Cheater
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Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2015 9:31 am Post subject: Re: social anxiety |
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| pauw wrote: | | I didnt had anything to do in School ( I had practical work and I've finished too early and I was alone 2 hours) And I've seen my friend with whom I sometimes hang out at the gym and with whom I talk at the bus stop. He was talking to 3 friends and I've said " heey [ his name]" and came in the circle. He was standing at the oposite side of thr "circle" but he was facing about 20° to the right (so he wasnt looking directly at me). And he just continued looking straight in front of him. One of his friends looked at me and then turned back. There was silence for about 1 minute (or it seemed to me like a long time). After what I've just gone away. I was feeling really weird. So, what do you think, do I have social anxiety.[/b] |
Did you feel a Discomfort or Fear involved with being Judged or Evaluated by others?
That is what Social Anxiety is.
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paupav Master Cheater
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Posted: Thu Feb 05, 2015 9:35 am Post subject: Re: social anxiety |
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| TwoSpooky wrote: | | pauw wrote: | | I didnt had anything to do in School ( I had practical work and I've finished too early and I was alone 2 hours) And I've seen my friend with whom I sometimes hang out at the gym and with whom I talk at the bus stop. He was talking to 3 friends and I've said " heey [ his name]" and came in the circle. He was standing at the oposite side of thr "circle" but he was facing about 20° to the right (so he wasnt looking directly at me). And he just continued looking straight in front of him. One of his friends looked at me and then turned back. There was silence for about 1 minute (or it seemed to me like a long time). After what I've just gone away. I was feeling really weird. So, what do you think, do I have social anxiety.[/b] |
Did you feel a Discomfort or Fear involved with being Judged or Evaluated by others?
That is what Social Anxiety is. |
Yes.
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TwoSpooky Cheater
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Posted: Thu Feb 05, 2015 1:38 pm Post subject: Re: social anxiety |
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Well maybe you do then.
I am not licensed for this though so don't take that as fact.
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TheIndianGuy Advanced Cheater
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Posted: Thu Feb 05, 2015 5:35 pm Post subject: |
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| spoiler: everyone experiences anxiety to some extent. the only difference is most people greatly reduce their anxiety to the point where it isn't a problem through normal social interaction. those who stay inside all day that fear social interaction and try to avoid anything that makes them uncomfortable only grow their fear and anxiety.
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Lithium. Newbie cheater
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Posted: Thu Feb 05, 2015 6:53 pm Post subject: |
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| TheIndianGuy wrote: | | spoiler: everyone experiences anxiety to some extent. the only difference is most people greatly reduce their anxiety to the point where it isn't a problem through normal social interaction. those who stay inside all day that fear social interaction and try to avoid anything that makes them uncomfortable only grow their fear and anxiety. |
Good post here. And 100% fact. Forcing yourself to do things normally out of your comfort level is really the only way to get over feeling socially awkward. Plus, you'll soon realize that people always have an opinion about others regardless of how well they know them. What matters are the opinions of the ones that really do know you.
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Posted: Fri Feb 06, 2015 12:34 am Post subject: |
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Speaking is almost a resurrection in relation to life. Speech is another life from when one does not speak. So, to live in speech one must pass through the death of life without speech. l may not be putting it clearly, but there is a kind of ascetic rule that stops one from talking well until one sees life with detachment.
With detachment. We balance, that's why we pass from silence to words. We swing between the two because it's the movement of life. From everyday life one rises to a life we call superior. The thinking life. But this life presupposes one has killed the everyday too elementary life.
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Nirojan How do I cheat?
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Posted: Fri Feb 06, 2015 2:08 am Post subject: |
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| Brolock wrote: | Speaking is almost a resurrection in relation to life. Speech is another life from when one does not speak. So, to live in speech one must pass through the death of life without speech. l may not be putting it clearly, but there is a kind of ascetic rule that stops one from talking well until one sees life with detachment.
With detachment. We balance, that's why we pass from silence to words. We swing between the two because it's the movement of life. From everyday life one rises to a life we call superior. The thinking life. But this life presupposes one has killed the everyday too elementary life. | just the kind of shit
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paupav Master Cheater
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Posted: Fri Feb 06, 2015 4:42 pm Post subject: |
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| And today at the gym he was like: "Hey, how is it going?". Maybe he has social anxiety?
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Posted: Sat Feb 07, 2015 1:25 am Post subject: |
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Walk up in the club like
Yo whattup, I got social anxiety
I want to go home
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