I've never been in a relationship so I have nothing to compare it to, but being alone is nice because women always want to mold you into something different, and whether they're gold diggers or not a relationship costs money that could be spent investing and making profit. I believe much of the hype for relationships come from people who are single and have a warped sense that having a girlfriend or boyfriend will make them happy when in reality nothing can make them happy unless they stop depending on other people for happiness and find it within themselves. To be honest relationships probably just cause extra problems, all the ones I see that work out are because of an emotional roller coaster effect not being happy or sad all the time. I think its because people get closer every time they fight and make up, but it really isn't worth the stress or time because there are many more valuable things in life. Some people just feel like they aren't complete without their significant other, and that can lead to many problems. You want to be open to finding someone, but it shouldn't be what you wake up thinking you need everyday because that will most likely make you come off as desperate, so you'll end up having less chance of finding the right person. Just don't ever change who you are to be with someone because the right person will come along eventually, and if they don't it was never meant to be.
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Posted: Fri May 17, 2013 12:00 pm Post subject:
BreakinGods wrote:
I've never been in a relationship so I have nothing to compare it to, but being alone is nice because women always want to mold you into something different, and whether they're gold diggers or not a relationship costs money that could be spent investing and making profit. I believe much of the hype for relationships come from people who are single and have a warped sense that having a girlfriend or boyfriend will make them happy when in reality nothing can make them happy unless they stop depending on other people for happiness and find it within themselves. To be honest relationships probably just cause extra problems, all the ones I see that work out are because of an emotional roller coaster effect not being happy or sad all the time. I think its because people get closer every time they fight and make up, but it really isn't worth the stress or time because there are many more valuable things in life. Some people just feel like they aren't complete without their significant other, and that can lead to many problems. You want to be open to finding someone, but it shouldn't be what you wake up thinking you need everyday because that will most likely make you come off as desperate, so you'll end up having less chance of finding the right person. Just don't ever change who you are to be with someone because the right person will come along eventually, and if they don't it was never meant to be.
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would read the sequel _________________
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Posted: Fri May 17, 2013 12:29 pm Post subject:
White Byte wrote:
BreakinGods wrote:
I've never been in a relationship so I have nothing to compare it to, but being alone is nice because women always want to mold you into something different, and whether they're gold diggers or not a relationship costs money that could be spent investing and making profit. I believe much of the hype for relationships come from people who are single and have a warped sense that having a girlfriend or boyfriend will make them happy when in reality nothing can make them happy unless they stop depending on other people for happiness and find it within themselves. To be honest relationships probably just cause extra problems, all the ones I see that work out are because of an emotional roller coaster effect not being happy or sad all the time. I think its because people get closer every time they fight and make up, but it really isn't worth the stress or time because there are many more valuable things in life. Some people just feel like they aren't complete without their significant other, and that can lead to many problems. You want to be open to finding someone, but it shouldn't be what you wake up thinking you need everyday because that will most likely make you come off as desperate, so you'll end up having less chance of finding the right person. Just don't ever change who you are to be with someone because the right person will come along eventually, and if they don't it was never meant to be.
20/10
would read the sequel
Unfortunately people who started the relationship business at early age are no longer capable of even imagining themselves alone and thus are always in search of a relationship.
By the way, combine that with the fact that falling in love (the temporary state VS being in love/living together/etc) causes dopamine, norepinephrine etc. to be released. Which technically means these people become drug addicts over time (and the longer they do not get settled or break this cycle, the worse the addiction becomes). _________________
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Posted: Fri May 17, 2013 1:49 pm Post subject:
BreakinGods wrote:
I've never been in a relationship so I have nothing to compare it to, but being alone is nice because women always want to mold you into something different, and whether they're gold diggers or not a relationship costs money that could be spent investing and making profit. I believe much of the hype for relationships come from people who are single and have a warped sense that having a girlfriend or boyfriend will make them happy when in reality nothing can make them happy unless they stop depending on other people for happiness and find it within themselves. To be honest relationships probably just cause extra problems, all the ones I see that work out are because of an emotional roller coaster effect not being happy or sad all the time. I think its because people get closer every time they fight and make up, but it really isn't worth the stress or time because there are many more valuable things in life. Some people just feel like they aren't complete without their significant other, and that can lead to many problems. You want to be open to finding someone, but it shouldn't be what you wake up thinking you need everyday because that will most likely make you come off as desperate, so you'll end up having less chance of finding the right person. Just don't ever change who you are to be with someone because the right person will come along eventually, and if they don't it was never meant to be.
I've been in relationships, and somehow this makes a whole lot of sense. Then again I've never really been in love except for once, and that love was unrequited.
I've never been in a relationship so I have nothing to compare it to, but being alone is nice because women always want to mold you into something different, and whether they're gold diggers or not a relationship costs money that could be spent investing and making profit. I believe much of the hype for relationships come from people who are single and have a warped sense that having a girlfriend or boyfriend will make them happy when in reality nothing can make them happy unless they stop depending on other people for happiness and find it within themselves. To be honest relationships probably just cause extra problems, all the ones I see that work out are because of an emotional roller coaster effect not being happy or sad all the time. I think its because people get closer every time they fight and make up, but it really isn't worth the stress or time because there are many more valuable things in life. Some people just feel like they aren't complete without their significant other, and that can lead to many problems. You want to be open to finding someone, but it shouldn't be what you wake up thinking you need everyday because that will most likely make you come off as desperate, so you'll end up having less chance of finding the right person. Just don't ever change who you are to be with someone because the right person will come along eventually, and if they don't it was never meant to be.
I've been in relationships, and somehow this makes a whole lot of sense. Then again I've never really been in love except for once, and that love was unrequited.
I've never been in a relationship so I have nothing to compare it to, but being alone is nice because women always want to mold you into something different, and whether they're gold diggers or not a relationship costs money that could be spent investing and making profit. I believe much of the hype for relationships come from people who are single and have a warped sense that having a girlfriend or boyfriend will make them happy when in reality nothing can make them happy unless they stop depending on other people for happiness and find it within themselves. To be honest relationships probably just cause extra problems, all the ones I see that work out are because of an emotional roller coaster effect not being happy or sad all the time. I think its because people get closer every time they fight and make up, but it really isn't worth the stress or time because there are many more valuable things in life. Some people just feel like they aren't complete without their significant other, and that can lead to many problems. You want to be open to finding someone, but it shouldn't be what you wake up thinking you need everyday because that will most likely make you come off as desperate, so you'll end up having less chance of finding the right person. Just don't ever change who you are to be with someone because the right person will come along eventually, and if they don't it was never meant to be.
Haha well said. I honestly believe people are too connected with their brains rather than their heart these days [Including me]. They look and compare too much of what other people have and believe that they should have it them selves in order to be happy, rather than looking into their selves and truly seeking what their heart really wants.
Here this video explains what I'm trying to say better:
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Posted: Fri May 17, 2013 3:02 pm Post subject:
(dib1500) wrote:
BreakinGods wrote:
I've never been in a relationship so I have nothing to compare it to, but being alone is nice because women always want to mold you into something different, and whether they're gold diggers or not a relationship costs money that could be spent investing and making profit. I believe much of the hype for relationships come from people who are single and have a warped sense that having a girlfriend or boyfriend will make them happy when in reality nothing can make them happy unless they stop depending on other people for happiness and find it within themselves. To be honest relationships probably just cause extra problems, all the ones I see that work out are because of an emotional roller coaster effect not being happy or sad all the time. I think its because people get closer every time they fight and make up, but it really isn't worth the stress or time because there are many more valuable things in life. Some people just feel like they aren't complete without their significant other, and that can lead to many problems. You want to be open to finding someone, but it shouldn't be what you wake up thinking you need everyday because that will most likely make you come off as desperate, so you'll end up having less chance of finding the right person. Just don't ever change who you are to be with someone because the right person will come along eventually, and if they don't it was never meant to be.
Haha well said. I honestly believe people are too connected with their brains rather than their heart these days [Including me]. They look and compare too much of what other people have and believe that they should have it them selves in order to be happy, rather than looking into their selves and truly seeking what their heart really wants.
I honest to god like being alone. Relationships are such a hassle, except for the sex. And sooner or later I always arrive at the 'the sex doesn't outweigh the bullshit anymore'-point, and I quit the relationship. I either act like a dick so she'll break it off, or I give the 'I don't feel the same way anymore' speech. The latter seems more appreciated because they feel like I'm being honest and direct, but nothing really changed: I felt nothing throughout the relationship either way. I always like them, in hopes of it becoming more on my end, but it never does. I might be rushing into these things, ending up in them getting hurt... I am a horrible person.
I didn't consider relationships. I was thinking of "alone" as in, there was nobody near me, physically alone.
I've been alone --relationship-wise-- for years... no complaints. _________________
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