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@Retallion Grandmaster Cheater Supreme
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Posted: Sat Jan 03, 2009 1:36 am Post subject: Her friends a bitch. ('girl question') |
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Her friends a bitch.
This is yet another girl question, I'm sorry for having these. But I need expert advice, and I can't do this on my mine. Here's the problem, this girl I like Cassidy, she's perfect, that's all that needs to be said. Her friend Shannon, she doesn't like me. I have no clue why, maybe she thinks I'm weird. I never really remember doing anything that could change her opinion on me. But I had a class with her in 8th grade, and she kept telling me to go away? I mean really, what the fuck is her problem. I was just being nice. But here's the question; Should I become friends with Shannon before I start talking to Cassidy? Because Shannon might tell Cassidy not to talk to me.
Edit On ; I'm friends with Shannon's friends.
Edit On ; Cassidy doesn't know I exist... yet
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[SPW]Jsin Grandmaster Cheater Supreme
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there can be tons of reasons, make up your own reasons and follow those. just try to show her that you are willing to be friends. if she doesn't comply, just be friends with Cassidy, ask her on a date. unless Shannon is the leader of Cassidy, Cassidy probably won't listen to her.
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MapleStory. Grandmaster Cheater Supreme
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Leave her the hell alone.
'She kept telling me to go away.'
That meant she wanted you to go away. Multiple times. Just leave her alone, if you ever DO have a confrontation, just apologize. Say 'if I offended you, I'm sorry. I didn't mean it.' then drop it. Problem solved
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@Retallion Grandmaster Cheater Supreme
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| V-3 wrote: | Leave her the hell alone.
'She kept telling me to go away.'
That meant she wanted you to go away. Multiple times. Just leave her alone, if you ever DO have a confrontation, just apologize. Say 'if I offended you, I'm sorry. I didn't mean it.' then drop it. Problem solved  |
But I don't know what I did wrong.
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[SPW]Jsin Grandmaster Cheater Supreme
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Posted: Sat Jan 03, 2009 2:26 am Post subject: |
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| Retallion wrote: | | V-3 wrote: | Leave her the hell alone.
'She kept telling me to go away.'
That meant she wanted you to go away. Multiple times. Just leave her alone, if you ever DO have a confrontation, just apologize. Say 'if I offended you, I'm sorry. I didn't mean it.' then drop it. Problem solved  |
But I don't know what I did wrong. |
after you become friends with Cassidy, ask her why she's so mean to you.
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pr334t Cheater
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Posted: Sat Jan 03, 2009 2:42 am Post subject: |
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| you need to be friends with shannon first, u know girls they talk behind your back and can fuck you up worst than with fists.
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| Well, if Cassidy really likes you, she wouldn't base her opinion of you because her friends say this and that. If someone hates you for, well "no reason" there's nothing that can be said. Really, what can you do? Maybe she's jealous or something, who knows. Confront her or something, say, "What have I done to make you dislike me?" That's a way to get to someone.
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MapleStory. Grandmaster Cheater Supreme
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Posted: Sat Jan 03, 2009 3:02 am Post subject: |
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| Retallion wrote: | | V-3 wrote: | Leave her the hell alone.
'She kept telling me to go away.'
That meant she wanted you to go away. Multiple times. Just leave her alone, if you ever DO have a confrontation, just apologize. Say 'if I offended you, I'm sorry. I didn't mean it.' then drop it. Problem solved  |
But I don't know what I did wrong. |
You don't need to. I've gotten in trouble for, been yelled at for, and have apologized for things I don't think I ever did. If you just walk up and say 'what'd I do?' there's a 9/10 chance she's not gonna tell you.
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@Retallion Grandmaster Cheater Supreme
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Posted: Sat Jan 03, 2009 3:32 am Post subject: |
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| V-3 wrote: | | Retallion wrote: | | V-3 wrote: | Leave her the hell alone.
'She kept telling me to go away.'
That meant she wanted you to go away. Multiple times. Just leave her alone, if you ever DO have a confrontation, just apologize. Say 'if I offended you, I'm sorry. I didn't mean it.' then drop it. Problem solved  |
But I don't know what I did wrong. |
You don't need to. I've gotten in trouble for, been yelled at for, and have apologized for things I don't think I ever did. If you just walk up and say 'what'd I do?' there's a 9/10 chance she's not gonna tell you. |
I guess so. So just apologize, and maybe she'll be like "He has balls", he must be worth it.
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| Retallion wrote: | | V-3 wrote: | | Retallion wrote: | | V-3 wrote: | Leave her the hell alone.
'She kept telling me to go away.'
That meant she wanted you to go away. Multiple times. Just leave her alone, if you ever DO have a confrontation, just apologize. Say 'if I offended you, I'm sorry. I didn't mean it.' then drop it. Problem solved  |
But I don't know what I did wrong. |
You don't need to. I've gotten in trouble for, been yelled at for, and have apologized for things I don't think I ever did. If you just walk up and say 'what'd I do?' there's a 9/10 chance she's not gonna tell you. |
I guess so. So just apologize, and maybe she'll be like "He has balls", he must be worth it. |
remember to wear your best clothes while apologizing or you might not be well presented and she will make fun of you
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Posted: Sat Jan 03, 2009 4:24 am Post subject: |
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| V-3 wrote: | Leave her the hell alone.
'She kept telling me to go away.'
That meant she wanted you to go away. Multiple times. Just leave her alone, if you ever DO have a confrontation, just apologize. Say 'if I offended you, I'm sorry. I didn't mean it.' then drop it. Problem solved  |
Take her side, every time someone disagrees about what she said or argues with her about anything, side with her to make her win. Then in due time you shall be friends with her. It worked for me, this girl despised me but I liked her friend, so we were in a group together, and someone in my group argued about her idea but I took her side and I kept doing that until she started respecting me and talking to me.
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| mark_the_hacker wrote: | | V-3 wrote: | Leave her the hell alone.
'She kept telling me to go away.'
That meant she wanted you to go away. Multiple times. Just leave her alone, if you ever DO have a confrontation, just apologize. Say 'if I offended you, I'm sorry. I didn't mean it.' then drop it. Problem solved  |
Take her side, every time someone disagrees about what she said or argues with her about anything, side with her to make her win. Then in due time you shall be friends with her. It worked for me, this girl despised me but I liked her friend, so we were in a group together, and someone in my group argued about her idea but I took her side and I kept doing that until she started respecting me and talking to me. |
Don't do it ALL the time, she might think you like her.
1.) you won't leave her alone before,
2.) you're trying to be friends,
3.) you always take her side in an argument,
it's not gonna be pretty.
@pr334t, that's the stupidest thing I've ever heard. If you're asking the girl's mom if you can take her out, yeah, but if you're apologizing to a friend of hers? No.
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| Maybe if you told her you use condoms she would get with you, It worked on a Trojan Commercial.
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| slasha888 wrote: | | Maybe if you told her you use condoms she would get with you, It worked on a Trojan Commercial. |
I lol'd @ the warn.
Some girls make fun of you or "hate" you just for something to do. There's quite a few like that where I live. Maybe she hates you because she actually likes you, and is trying to hard to hide it.
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Posted: Sat Jan 03, 2009 3:48 pm Post subject: |
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| First, make friends with Cassidy before her friend gives the wrong impression of you to her; and she judges you. If Cassidy likes you, and you start a relationship, then her friend can't interfere with it - Or will at least fail-to.
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