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Only comment if your going to be serious, and stay on-topic.
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I just got out of Middle-School and becoming a Freshman. I was taking a look at my friend Alex's Myspace. I saw this girl named Alexa.. so I decided to say Hi. She was pretty hot, haha. Eventually, for how much of a dumbass I am. I asked her to meet me at the mall, I thought I was being brave. But here's where I make myself look like the biggest dumb piece of fuck. I went to the mall, and she told me to meet her in some restaurant. I went it, and saw them eating. She brought her friends, so I was like wtf. I walked up... Said Hi, and totally acted like a fucking idiot. And walked away, just randomly. I AM THE BIGGEST DUMBASS EVERRRRRR!!
I don't know what to say to her.. I feel like a fucking idiot.
Im 14 and so is she, also. I met her mostly threw texting and talking on the phone. It's just when I see her.. i act like a dumbass!! I'd still do anything I can to re-live the moment i had with her.. 
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being serious, just tell her you want to go on a date with her only, not her friend too.(maybe don't ask her like that but along the lines). but never ask a girl in front of her friends, that would be weird.
if you ask her out, just the two of you, she will think that you are confident and girls like confident guys. you might have to do some damage control after what just happened but just work on it
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| BlackFusion wrote: | being serious, just tell her you want to go on a date with her. (maybe don't ask her like that but along the lines) and ONLY her not her friend. but never ask a girl in front of her friends, that would be weird.
if you ask her out, just the two of you, she will think that you are confident and girls like confident guys. you might have to do some damage control after what just happened but just work on it |
I'm not that confident. And I don't like how i look, I am not being racist, but I look asian. And I mother fucking hate it. In my life, I deny my asian looks 24/7. But that's just me.Other than that, I don't really wanna go on a date. I'm trying to become friends, so i'm more confident near girls. (I was confident, until a long story, which is really and you don't wanna hear it!)
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lol you did the right thing
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| Farshidito wrote: | | Bringing her friends is a good thing... It lets you seek out more options. |
It makes her more comfortable.
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What about my comfortable-nis?.. Lol. I'm so angry with myself.
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ok how old are you,and how old is the girl
EDIT:o ic your scared to talk o her while her friends are there
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I cut myself when i am angry at myself. 
jk
On a lighter note, you should probably try to talk to her agian. Maybe she understood? but she is the same age as you ( 13-15?? ) So she will probably make fun of you with her friends Who knows?
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Start small. text first.
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| raina wrote: | | Start small. text first. |
You don't feel comfortable. I understand. Well... Become good friends with text only, and when you can, ask her if you can go to the mall. bleh maybe like going with your friends and her friends is a good idea.
YOU KNOW WHAT I'M STUPID.
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Grow a pair. It helps, really.
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Text/myspace her saying that you like her and see how she reacts. if your shy, and she says no. never see her again so you wont have to feel embarassed. but if she says yes, gg. win win 
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| raina wrote: | | Start small. text first. |
Your avvy is so freaking hot.
Anyways, i agree with this statement. Start small then work your way up.
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| Posted: Fri Aug 15, 2008 5:32 am Post subject: Re: My *Girl* Problem, and Your help Needed. |
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| Smile Its Love wrote: | Only comment if your going to be serious, and stay on-topic.
*UPDATED TO EXPLAIN MORE*
I just got out of Middle-School and becoming a Freshman. I was taking a look at my friend Alex's Myspace. I saw this girl named Alexa.. so I decided to say Hi. She was pretty hot, haha. Eventually, for how much of a dumbass I am. I asked her to meet me at the mall, I thought I was being brave. But here's where I make myself look like the biggest dumb piece of fuck. I went to the mall, and she told me to meet her in some restaurant. I went it, and saw them eating. She brought her friends, so I was like wtf. I walked up... Said Hi, and totally acted like a fucking idiot. And walked away, just randomly. I AM THE BIGGEST DUMBASS EVERRRRRR!!
I don't know what to say to her.. I feel like a fucking idiot.
Im 14 and so is she, also. I met her mostly threw texting and talking on the phone. It's just when I see her.. i act like a dumbass!! I'd still do anything I can to re-live the moment i had with her.. |
Well here's the big 411
im starting school in just 4 days [monday] And i know meeting a cute girl is tough..Even the bravest overconfident people will get nervous meeting hot or cute girls..Of course it isnt your fault..It was Pressure,Pressure that you will overcome in a few days...
Thing is,You will feel nervous around girls,its a naturall reaction..All you can do is get be around her more to overcome your nerve shock [and i do not mean stalking her btw]...Try to hang with other girls if you feel she just doesnt notice you just yet,hanging with other girls also reliefs the pressure..
Me,who is also going to high school,had this feeling in middle school,but it was with all girls cause im a loner,im a goth and i didnt like anyone much..But i got threw it by getting to know them near the end of the school year and i saw the side of me that wasnt nervous anymore..
My Advice: dont be so rushy to meet someone if you're not ready,even if you feel you are..
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You're all forgetting one thing:
Sociological differences.
Every place has it's own rules. Unwritten, but they're there.
You should find out what to do yourself. Don't ask people from the other side of the world.
Example with sociological differences:
Here where I live there are social statusses. I'm allowed to talk to any girl I want, even those with a BF, and it will be called flirting.
When a friend of mine talks to a girl it's either called "stalking the girl Jaro flirted with" or "stalking the girl Jaro will flirt with".
And that while I do not flirt at all, I feel no need.
The phenomenom from above disapears when I'm out of town.
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