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teeigeryuh
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feels good, i dont have this grudge inside my head
i guess hate was what kept me going for a while, and when i didnt have anything to hate i got this mad and confused
dunno
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teeigeryuh
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| BreakinGods wrote: | | You're setting yourself up for failure. Short term goals are necessary or you never get any gratification for working hard. Use short term goals to reward yourself for being on a path to succeeding. What I do is I set short term goals that relate to long term ones, thus I can actually see progress and won't lose hope. I'm an aspiring psychiatrist so I actually genuinely have sympathy and empathy for people I don't even know because I've been through a lot and I know everyone has their own struggles, and I can put myself in their shoes and know I would have wanted someone to be there for me. |
dunno wat i want
ill ask this girl out to help me pick out some clothes, dunno
my wardrove is going empty, i havent obtaine new clothes because i didnt mind it and dunno wut clothes i should get :/
what do i want to do in the following weeks?
guess ill ask a girl out, but urbghghghghh, im getting a bit shy about it
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| Posted: Thu May 23, 2013 12:59 am Post subject: |
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| teeigeryuh wrote: | | Antagonist wrote: | Lol there's your problem. You're completely illogical and 100% emotional. Like a girl or in familiar term, a bitch.
You say you don't want to spend most of your time on the Internet. Yet you do.
nobody to spend it on? Sounds like you need a companion. Also sounds like you depend on other people.
Everyone is moving forward and you're not because you still act like a self centered teen. Emotionally volatile too apparently. |
i figured this out in my wai to dad's
why would i care if someone is extreoverted or not?
anyways, back to ur post
thanks, your first reply did it for me, i started thinking "wot i do wrong?!?!?!", then i remembered about how there's two types of narcissism
guess i was building this "ever1 is evil" way of thinking, i didnt want to hang around anyone because i really disliked extroverted people
but should this matter? no, because deep down i could really get along with them and have a nice time
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BreakinGods
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| teeigeryuh wrote: | | BreakinGods wrote: | | You're setting yourself up for failure. Short term goals are necessary or you never get any gratification for working hard. Use short term goals to reward yourself for being on a path to succeeding. What I do is I set short term goals that relate to long term ones, thus I can actually see progress and won't lose hope. I'm an aspiring psychiatrist so I actually genuinely have sympathy and empathy for people I don't even know because I've been through a lot and I know everyone has their own struggles, and I can put myself in their shoes and know I would have wanted someone to be there for me. |
dunno wat i want
ill ask this girl out to help me pick out some clothes, dunno
my wardrove is going empty, i havent obtaine new clothes because i didnt mind it and dunno wut clothes i should get :/
what do i want to do in the following weeks?
guess ill ask a girl out, but urbghghghghh, im getting a bit shy about it |
There's no need to be shy better girls will come around and you will be grateful for a lot of past experience. The best thing you can do is not come on too strong, but instead already have something planned and have a good time regardless of if she wants to join or not. Asking her out is too defined as starting a dating relationship and she may not be interested in going down that path just yet. Just have something hard to turn down planned and there won't be so much pressure on her to say yes or no, and if she does say no it isn't her denying a relationship because of how things progressed. Take her out and have fun then just make your move in the moment when the timing is perfect. Make sure you don't wait too long or you will get too close if you're trying to have sex.
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Make sure you tell her you like her forehead. Girls like people liking their foreheads.
Offer her a snickers too.
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| girls r gay
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teeigeryuh
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| Posted: Thu May 23, 2013 1:17 am Post subject: |
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| BreakinGods wrote: | | teeigeryuh wrote: | | BreakinGods wrote: | | You're setting yourself up for failure. Short term goals are necessary or you never get any gratification for working hard. Use short term goals to reward yourself for being on a path to succeeding. What I do is I set short term goals that relate to long term ones, thus I can actually see progress and won't lose hope. I'm an aspiring psychiatrist so I actually genuinely have sympathy and empathy for people I don't even know because I've been through a lot and I know everyone has their own struggles, and I can put myself in their shoes and know I would have wanted someone to be there for me. |
dunno wat i want
ill ask this girl out to help me pick out some clothes, dunno
my wardrove is going empty, i havent obtaine new clothes because i didnt mind it and dunno wut clothes i should get :/
what do i want to do in the following weeks?
guess ill ask a girl out, but urbghghghghh, im getting a bit shy about it |
There's no need to be shy better girls will come around and you will be grateful for a lot of past experience. The best thing you can do is not come on too strong, but instead already have something planned and have a good time regardless of if she wants to join or not. Asking her out is too defined as starting a dating relationship and she may not be interested in going down that path just yet. Just have something hard to turn down planned and there won't be so much pressure on her to say yes or no, and if she does say no it isn't her denying a relationship because of how things progressed. Take her out and have fun then just make your move in the moment when the timing is perfect. Make sure you don't wait too long or you will get too close if you're trying to have sex. |
its not that im shy about bringing it up
its just that, iuno, i got nothing to talk about, i literally dont listen to music or am I interested into anything in the mainstream inb4hipster
unless you wana talk about how i made wordpress run 2k hits per second with only 128mb ram
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| Ozzub wrote: | Make sure you tell her you like her forehead. Girls like people liking their foreheads.
Offer her a snickers too. |
no dude tell her this
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BreakinGods
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| You're over thinking things that's why you assume you have nothing to talk about. You're trying to form an interesting conversation in your head and it just won't work because it won't be a monologue. You just need to be confident and pay attention to what she is saying because she will give you key words that lead to meaningful conversation. If you can't be confident naturally fake it till you make it because you'll realize you're selling yourself short and the confidence was there all along. Relating to your music taste comment that is very generic small talk being different is a good thing just let the conversation flow, but be careful to not be trying hard to be different you want to me a good medium.
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teeigeryuh
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| Posted: Thu May 23, 2013 1:39 am Post subject: |
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| BreakinGods wrote: | | You're over thinking things that's why you assume you have nothing to talk about. You're trying to form an interesting conversation in your head and it just won't work because it won't be a monologue. You just need to be confident and pay attention to what she is saying because she will give you key words that lead to meaningful conversation. If you can't be confident naturally fake it till you make it because you'll realize you're selling yourself short and the confidence was there all along. Relating to your music taste comment that is very generic small talk being different is a good thing just let the conversation flow, but be careful to not be trying hard to be different you want to me a good medium. |
thanks, fake confidence, i just remembered
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| Posted: Thu May 23, 2013 2:02 am Post subject: |
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| faking confidence is the same as having it
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teeigeryuh
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| Posted: Thu May 23, 2013 2:15 am Post subject: |
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| Brolock wrote: | | faking confidence is the same as having it |
i can assure u its not
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