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tylermoore Expert Cheater
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Posted: Thu Dec 11, 2008 7:09 pm Post subject: Is being more femenine good if your a guy? |
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I've recently been told by many girls I'm easy to relate to because I have this femenine side I did not know whether or not to take affence... I seem to be making girls happy and want to talk to me but on the other hands my male friends think it's really weird. Should I be imbarrassed or should they be jealous?
Personally I'm sure it's good because I tend to care and respect women more then other men would. Opinions?
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xMurtaghx I post too much
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Posted: Thu Dec 11, 2008 7:12 pm Post subject: |
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Well, Idk, you should be in the middle, man it up a little to be not
that "femenine" that people will start calling you gay and trans. but also
not too tough.
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FullyAwesome I post too much
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Posted: Thu Dec 11, 2008 7:16 pm Post subject: |
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you shouldn't really care what people think. at least you're not a sheep and don't have to act like everyone else? if you talked like a bit of a faggot and walked like poof, then you should be worried.
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tylermoore Expert Cheater
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Posted: Thu Dec 11, 2008 7:18 pm Post subject: |
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I mean I act male but when I'm with girls I just seem to know what they want. For example when I'm with guys I act like a male not gay but when I'm with girls it tends to be a little romantic 0.o
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xMurtaghx I post too much
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Posted: Thu Dec 11, 2008 7:19 pm Post subject: |
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oh, then continue doing that. If something... just dont show that you care
and they'll get bored of making fun of you (if they even start) and move
on. Always works for me.
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tylermoore Expert Cheater
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Posted: Thu Dec 11, 2008 7:21 pm Post subject: |
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Ok, thanks =]
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AverageAzn247 Grandmaster Cheater
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Posted: Thu Dec 11, 2008 8:20 pm Post subject: |
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Depends on the location. If u live in a conservative place everyone will think ur gay. But if u live in a more liberal place ppl will think ur metro.
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redslothx Grandmaster Cheater Supreme
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Posted: Thu Dec 11, 2008 8:36 pm Post subject: |
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Girl point of view(some1 else who is a girl, [not me], is writting this):
a guy/girl can act in any way and it wont mean they are "X" just because they act a certain way.
Meaning, being told that you have a feminine side does not mean anything.
On average, most guys have a 50/50 masculine/feminine side.
those that are all "oh im a man so respect the penis powers" are usually very insecure about themselves
a guy who can talk normally and understand a girl better with ease has more value than an idiot who thinks men are the best and women are just tools.
My own point of view(im a guy btw):
guys who are too "im a man so i should act this way" is just acting and trying to kiss some1s ass by creating impressions.
a guy who can be understood and acts normal around both girls and guys would have a better attitude.
being told that you have a feminine side shouldnt mean much.
if you think you were called gay, then just remember that homosexuality regards attraction to same gender. not: being understood or getting along with opposite gender.
anyways, if a girl said that to you, its not a bad thing.
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Posted: Thu Dec 11, 2008 8:46 pm Post subject: |
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Well, a girl has an easier time hanging out with gay guys because they can both check out the hotties.
But on the real, don't do the hand flip thing and you'll be fine. oO but why do you even care? I would never ask CEF something like this.
Buuuut I just read the last part of your post and your friends are just jealous... it looks like they are in the cooties stage still... If you never have friends who are girls, or can't be cool around them, you are pretty much setting yourself up to become socially awkward.
Edit, whooops look what made it into my sig
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Posted: Thu Dec 11, 2008 9:17 pm Post subject: |
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No, more testosterone is needed!
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tylermoore Expert Cheater
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SO BASICLY THE SITUATION I'M in right now is a nice situation where I will meet many women and have many more GF's then a regular guy who abuses girls just to have sex with them?
I would like to add..
I do not have a problem with any women and I am not gay I do not have a gay voice gay attitude... I have nothing against gays I just do not act like one. I have more of a girls point of view like for example I think about being romantic stuff like curling up with a girl kissing her neck rubing her body sending shivers of sensation through the body. I kind of do a good job of being detailed. Anyways I'm more like that. I'm not shy or imbarrassed of what I do nor anything I have. If a girl wants to judge me for what I look like then I don't care but if they want to talk maybe be opened to each other I'm all for that. Just so you knew the whole point was that a regular guy would not do that sort of thing and be like dude your fucked meanwhile the girl I'm admiring or talking to would appreciate it. =]
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Posted: Thu Dec 11, 2008 9:21 pm Post subject: |
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| tylermoore wrote: | | I mean I act male but when I'm with girls I just seem to know what they want. For example when I'm with guys I act like a male not gay but when I'm with girls it tends to be a little romantic 0.o |
I know what your getting to.. Sometimes when im alone with girls it seems a lot more. "real" than it would around my guy friends, you dont act yourself around your own gender is what I found out. I find it way easier to talk to women if I have something to vent about, and since I have a great girlfriend we can really connect to eachother easily
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tylermoore Expert Cheater
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| XDeltaSnipeX wrote: | | tylermoore wrote: | | I mean I act male but when I'm with girls I just seem to know what they want. For example when I'm with guys I act like a male not gay but when I'm with girls it tends to be a little romantic 0.o |
I know what your getting to.. Sometimes when im alone with girls it seems a lot more. "real" than it would around my guy friends, you dont act yourself around your own gender is what I found out. I find it way easier to talk to women if I have something to vent about, and since I have a great girlfriend we can really connect to eachother easily |
Exactly but for me I have 4 girls crushing for me while my GF is mad =/
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Posted: Thu Dec 11, 2008 9:39 pm Post subject: |
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| tylermoore wrote: | | XDeltaSnipeX wrote: | | tylermoore wrote: | | I mean I act male but when I'm with girls I just seem to know what they want. For example when I'm with guys I act like a male not gay but when I'm with girls it tends to be a little romantic 0.o |
I know what your getting to.. Sometimes when im alone with girls it seems a lot more. "real" than it would around my guy friends, you dont act yourself around your own gender is what I found out. I find it way easier to talk to women if I have something to vent about, and since I have a great girlfriend we can really connect to eachother easily |
Exactly but for me I have 4 girls crushing for me while my GF is mad =/ |
Not to brag or anything, but most girls in my class have a crush on me. It isnt hard to tell. But you dont want to reject them, treat them nicely and you will be fine (Ex: Dont be mean to them, but dont treat them as well as your GF) . You and your GF may not last forever, and they may still like you.
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tylermoore Expert Cheater
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Posted: Thu Dec 11, 2008 9:48 pm Post subject: |
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Try 3 years for me and my GF =]
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